It's strange going from the concept of absolutely don't get pregnant to the notion of ok, we waited, we planned (like everyone said). Now was as good of a time as any and then nothing happens. Nada. Zip, zilch. Absolutely, NOTHING. Although, that didn't stop me from thinking with every possible chance that we were in fact pregnant. Next thing you know months go by and then the months turn into a whole year. All without a sign that anything was changing, except our patience and growing concern. Just like many others, I had assumed this wouldn't happen to us.